3 Ways Understanding Brain Science Builds an Inner Calm
What if someone told you that you could control your brain? Well, the good news is there’s a lot we can do in this department. All you need is some practice and a little bit of knowledge.
Learning to control our thoughts and emotions and the impact they have on our body involves a set of skills that can be learned with time, practice, and patience. Ready to learn how to be calm under pressure? Let’s start!
1. Understand “Fight or Flight”
You may have learned about this one at school. If you need a little recap, “fight or flight” describes how the body reacts in stressful situations. To put it simply, you either decide to flee the scene (flight) or take action (fight). On a fundamental level, this explains why you react a certain way in order to survive. However, “fight or flight” is irrelevant in a lot of scenarios in our modern world. Yet, our brain senses danger when we experience things outside of what is “normal.” If you feel your body tensing up, for example, that’s a by-product of “fight or flight.” The next time you think you’re experiencing this, ask yourself, “Is this really life or death? Or should I calm down and realise it will be okay?”
2. Call out your Emotions
Detaching from your emotions is prescribed by many meditation experts and leaders who have mastered the art of staying calm. We are humans, so we are inevitably going to experience the whole gamut of feelings. That being said, we can choose to observe them rather than attach to them. That means when you feel a surge of anger, call it out. Say, “That’s anger I’m experiencing because of XYZ. I know that this will pass, but I acknowledge that my feelings are valid.” Be sure to validate your feelings rather than dismiss them. Your emotions are real, and it is okay to feel what you’re feeling!
3. Breathe
Sometimes, all you need to do is breathe. Connect to your breath. Count your breaths. Be grateful that you’re breathing. There are many ways to experience the delight of breathing, so take some time to figure out which approach works best for you. The important thing is that you’re doing it. As we mentioned with “fight or flight,” the body reacts to stress and adverse events. We may choke up, forget to breathe, or breathe very heavily. All of those things impact our mind, so try to instil a sense of calm in your body first.
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